Play Your Love Song

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Sing Your SongRemember your song? The one the two of you danced to at you wedding? Or the song that was blasting on your car radio on your way to the beach? Or the song the two of you sang  karaoke night on your first date? Of all the sounds that fill the air, piercing through the cacophony of life, this tune provides the two of you with the happiest sound of all. Yes love requires occasionally peace and quiet to prosper, it can also thrive surrounded by your happy love song.

Don’t allow your song to disappear into the ether. Use it to communicate the love you have for each other; maybe even play it every day. Perhaps you could use it to wake up to every morning or listen to it right before you go to bed. Use it as the background of your voicemail. Whistle it while you’re preparing dinner. Others may share your song, but when you set the music playing, for that moment it’s all yours . . . not just for one of you, but for both of you. The notes can help tie you closer together, and the more you play it, the tighter the ties that bind will be.

While music is meant to be heard, it can also be written in a text message or an email, on their  Facebook wall and of course you can write it on twitter  or do it the old-fashioned way and write it on sweetheart cards. There’s a woman in Montreal who makes pins out of the music of popular songs. Whether it is one of her pieces of jewelry or in another form, like through you favorite social media  or the old fashion  stationery, you can show your love for your song and your love by displaying these notes in many places where sounds are out-of-place.

Spontaneous Or Planned Romantic Moments Are Wonderful

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Carol's avatarCelebrate The Sweet Life

Keep Dating After The "I Do's"Spontaneous romantic moments are wonderful but so is planned romance without spontaneity or a planned date your love nest can become a sinkhole for love.

Spontaneous romantic moments are a wonderful goal, but lovemaking that is planned can still soar the two of you to unexpected heights, each segment perfectly constructed, because you’re the architect. 

Is love really better when it sneaks up on you or do you prefer planned romance? Planned romance  has one ingredient that spontaneous love lacks . . . anticipation. If you know in advance that at a particular hour you’ll be staring into each other’s eyes, you can interrupt your day with fantasies about those up coming moments. Then by the time you’re in each other’s arms, the experience will be that much sweeter. 

So grab those spontaneous moments when they come your way, but don’t count on them for building your very own love shack. Make certain that you stow away…

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Love blossoms in a rainbow of colors

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Mrs & MrLoves meanings come in a broad array of words but the words “I love you” stand head and shoulders above the rest and that’s when those three little words convey the feelings that two hearts are beating as one. But romantic love blossoms in a rainbow of  colors and words that changes hues every second of every hour. So when you say “I love you” to each other take care to since the words real meaning. Remember being a kid playing with a chemistry set? Some experiments worked, some fizzled. When we become adults we discover that some relationships work, while others fail to bubble.  The secret to any chemical reaction is putting in enough energy for the molecules to ignite.

When two people fall in love, a chemical process bubbles up, and from their love and entirely new love is created. While the two remain individuals and lead their separate lives, when they are together they’re a team working as one. Their likes and dislikes, their tastes and appetites, their desires and needs begin to fold into each other.  Soon they find themselves liking the same things, living the same lives, and loving each other more. The ingredients that went into their love melt and combine together to form a new love that is theirs alone.

So don’t let the love flame get too low and don’t leave to many harsh words go unforgiving your love may not last. Instead turn up the heat, and allow yourselves to melt into each other’s arms, into each others hearts, and into each other’s souls. Remember if too much heat is added suddenly, the mix could burn. It’s better to maintain a constant flame that keeps the reaction going than to run hot and cold. That’s not always possible, but whatever you do , don’t let the flame die out altogether.

 

Don’t Let Your Sweetheart’s Snoring Ruin Your Romance

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Last KissDoes your sweetheart have some foibles that drive you crazy?  This is part of being in a relationship and those foibles were  a part of them way before you came along.  No, really in all likelihood, each foible was part of your sweetheart long before you met. It’s not something that he or she does just to drive you nuts. Why does she always forget her keys? Why does he have to check his apps notifications while he is driving? Why does he leave the kitchen cupboard doors open all the time? After all it’s not that hard to close a door is it?

These are questions that you may end up asking yourself to the end of time and never get an answer. We all have our good points, but they’re paired with the bad ones. Without that mix, we’d be boring. With it, we can be taxing. What makes it all worthwhile is the love the two of you share.  Since each foible was a part of your sweetheart long before you met and it’s not something he or she does just to make you upset don’t take them personally, and stop letting them drive you nut.  Foibles must be accepted the same way that he  accepts that beauty mark that you are always trying to cover up with makeup and she accepts that bump on his nose.

Tip: There are some Foibles that are just annoying to put up with, and you have to find a solution, aside from the obvious one of getting the other person to stop. For example, if your partner’s snoring keeps you awake, you may never be able to get him or her to stop, but you can still get together for a little romance and then get up and sleep in the other room. That doesn’t sound very romantic does it but if you get exhausted enough from the lack of sleep you’ll consider it.