Loves meanings come in a broad array of words but the words “I love you” stand head and shoulders above the rest and that’s when those three little words convey the feelings that two hearts are beating as one. But romantic love blossoms in a rainbow of  colors and words that changes hues every second of every hour. So when you say “I love you” to each other take care to since the words real meaning. Remember being a kid playing with a chemistry set? Some experiments worked, some fizzled. When we become adults we discover that some relationships work, while others fail to bubble.  The secret to any chemical reaction is putting in enough energy for the molecules to ignite.

When two people fall in love, a chemical process bubbles up, and from their love and entirely new love is created. While the two remain individuals and lead their separate lives, when they are together they’re a team working as one. Their likes and dislikes, their tastes and appetites, their desires and needs begin to fold into each other.  Soon they find themselves liking the same things, living the same lives, and loving each other more. The ingredients that went into their love melt and combine together to form a new love that is theirs alone.

So don’t let the love flame get too low and don’t leave to many harsh words go unforgiving your love may not last. Instead turn up the heat, and allow yourselves to melt into each other’s arms, into each others hearts, and into each other’s souls. Remember if too much heat is added suddenly, the mix could burn. It’s better to maintain a constant flame that keeps the reaction going than to run hot and cold. That’s not always possible, but whatever you do , don’t let the flame die out altogether.