Spontaneous romantic moments are wonderful but so is planned romance without spontaneity or a planned date your love nest can become a sinkhole for love.

Spontaneous romantic moments are a wonderful goal, but lovemaking that is planned can still soar the two of you to unexpected heights, each segment perfectly constructed, because you’re the architect. 

Is love really better when it sneaks up on you or do you prefer planned romance? Planned romance  has one ingredient that spontaneous love lacks . . . anticipation. If you know in advance that at a particular hour you’ll be staring into each other’s eyes, you can interrupt your day with fantasies about those up coming moments. Then by the time you’re in each other’s arms, the experience will be that much sweeter. 

So grab those spontaneous moments when they come your way, but don’t count on them for building your very own love shack. Make certain that you stow away…