Author Archives: Carol Medlock

“Love Is You And Me”

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Bride and GroomLove is Me and You! Love is a lot of things to me like doing things together or eating candy. Love is fun, and a challenge, too. Love is sunshine smiling on our days, and when it rains it’s still okay. love is lots of things to me, but mostly love is Me and You!  I love you as you are and as you will be. I love you because there’s this little part of me (my heart) … that tells me that you and I were simply and meant to be.

You were meant for me. I have traveled many miles across the shining sea and I have seen many lives go down hill, and other lives go up hill and spent happily. But the only answer that I’ve found in all these places that I’ve seen is that I’m meant for you and you’re meant for me. I’ve followed hopes and followed hearts and I have wandered aimlessly. I have met  strangers in strange places, chased after even stranger dreams but the only certainty I’ve found and the only thing I’ll ever see, is that I’m meant for you, and you’re meant for me.

In my heart you don’t have to be perfect to belong in this place. You don’t have all the answers or always know the right thing to say. You can climb the highest mountain if you want. Or quietly imagine that you might someday. You can take chances or take safety nets, make miracles or make mistakes. You don’t be composed at all hours to be strong here. You don’t have to be bold or certain  to be brave. You don’t  have all the answers here or even know who you want to be. Just take my hand and rest your heart and stay awhile with me.

I’d do almost anything for you for example, I  would clean your house, I might also wash your car or maybe I’d get you some special chocolates or walk ten miles to see you or maybe take the train. I would give you everything I have, I’d give you everything I’ve got. Anyway, to do all these things I must like you a lot. (I do). I love the way you look at me. I love the way you smile, I love the things you do, I love it when we walk along together for a while, I love the things you say to me, I love that thing you do to me but mostly, what I mean to say is simply… I love you.

Without you, I would not grow  so much or laugh so much or know so much, I would not play so much or make so much of home. Without you, I would not smile so much or give so much or live so much. so many parts of me would be missing, without your smile to help me grow. Before you came my way my life was okay, but not that grand or anything it wasn’t complete. Why? Because you were missing. . . Love is you and me!

Look Into Your Sweethearts Eyes

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Your eyes can express feelings that words cannot, your eyes say, “I missed you,”  “I’m angry with you”,  “I adore you.” or “I trust you.”  Your partner knows how you really feel with or without words. And when you use your eyes with your words, they add an emphasis that can’t be missed.

Eye contract is vital in every relationship. When spoken into space , the words “I love you” lose half their meaning, maybe even all of it. (Unless you’re on the phone, of course.) It’s when you say those words while looking into your sweethearts eyes that they mean the most.

So, try to spend some time each day looking into each other’s eyes, you’ll be expressing yourselves in a way that words cannot duplicate. Maybe you were across the room and your eyes met. Maybe that’s how it began. soon you communicated with words and with your bodies, but it was your eyes that made the first contact.

Tip: If your partner can’t look you in the eyes, there’s another type of message being communicated. Don’t ignore such a sign, but try to get to the bottom of it. The earlier you spot trouble in a relationship  and make repairs, the easier it will be.

Listen To Your Partners Advice

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Help doesn’t have to be physical and sharing doesn’t mean losing control. But a loved one’s support can mean everything in coping with life’s problems. So when your partner offers a lifeline and you’re tempted to toss it aside, look into the eyes of the person holding the other end and grab on. If you are in a relationship that means the two of you are in it for the good times and the hard times. If you are use solving your problems yourself, even a minor crisis may cause you to shut your psyche up tight like a clam.

But if your partner loves you, he or she is going to sense that something is wrong, even without knowing what it is. Your partner wants to help you get through this. If you lock up your feelings refuse your partner’s help, it may cause rift. If it happens over and over, you could drift so far apart that you sight of each other. Listening to your partner’s advice doesn’t mean you have to take it. But by sharing your burden, you  will strengthen your relationship, and that’s a positive outcome no matter what started it all.

Tip: When you offer a stranger advice, you can walk away without worrying about the outcome. When it’s someone close to you, it may require your  help to carry that advice. That shouldn’t deter you because if you love the person, you should want to help. But if you really can’t, be careful what advice you give.