Category Archives: Love

Look Into Your Sweethearts Eyes

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Your eyes can express feelings that words cannot, your eyes say, “I missed you,”  “I’m angry with you”,  “I adore you.” or “I trust you.”  Your partner knows how you really feel with or without words. And when you use your eyes with your words, they add an emphasis that can’t be missed.

Eye contract is vital in every relationship. When spoken into space , the words “I love you” lose half their meaning, maybe even all of it. (Unless you’re on the phone, of course.) It’s when you say those words while looking into your sweethearts eyes that they mean the most.

So, try to spend some time each day looking into each other’s eyes, you’ll be expressing yourselves in a way that words cannot duplicate. Maybe you were across the room and your eyes met. Maybe that’s how it began. soon you communicated with words and with your bodies, but it was your eyes that made the first contact.

Tip: If your partner can’t look you in the eyes, there’s another type of message being communicated. Don’t ignore such a sign, but try to get to the bottom of it. The earlier you spot trouble in a relationship  and make repairs, the easier it will be.

Listen To Your Partners Advice

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Help doesn’t have to be physical and sharing doesn’t mean losing control. But a loved one’s support can mean everything in coping with life’s problems. So when your partner offers a lifeline and you’re tempted to toss it aside, look into the eyes of the person holding the other end and grab on. If you are in a relationship that means the two of you are in it for the good times and the hard times. If you are use solving your problems yourself, even a minor crisis may cause you to shut your psyche up tight like a clam.

But if your partner loves you, he or she is going to sense that something is wrong, even without knowing what it is. Your partner wants to help you get through this. If you lock up your feelings refuse your partner’s help, it may cause rift. If it happens over and over, you could drift so far apart that you sight of each other. Listening to your partner’s advice doesn’t mean you have to take it. But by sharing your burden, you  will strengthen your relationship, and that’s a positive outcome no matter what started it all.

Tip: When you offer a stranger advice, you can walk away without worrying about the outcome. When it’s someone close to you, it may require your  help to carry that advice. That shouldn’t deter you because if you love the person, you should want to help. But if you really can’t, be careful what advice you give.