Category Archives: Relationships

Play Your Love Song

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Sing Your SongRemember your song? The one the two of you danced to at you wedding? Or the song that was blasting on your car radio on your way to the beach? Or the song the two of you sang  karaoke night on your first date? Of all the sounds that fill the air, piercing through the cacophony of life, this tune provides the two of you with the happiest sound of all. Yes love requires occasionally peace and quiet to prosper, it can also thrive surrounded by your happy love song.

Don’t allow your song to disappear into the ether. Use it to communicate the love you have for each other; maybe even play it every day. Perhaps you could use it to wake up to every morning or listen to it right before you go to bed. Use it as the background of your voicemail. Whistle it while you’re preparing dinner. Others may share your song, but when you set the music playing, for that moment it’s all yours . . . not just for one of you, but for both of you. The notes can help tie you closer together, and the more you play it, the tighter the ties that bind will be.

While music is meant to be heard, it can also be written in a text message or an email, on their  Facebook wall and of course you can write it on twitter  or do it the old-fashioned way and write it on sweetheart cards. There’s a woman in Montreal who makes pins out of the music of popular songs. Whether it is one of her pieces of jewelry or in another form, like through you favorite social media  or the old fashion  stationery, you can show your love for your song and your love by displaying these notes in many places where sounds are out-of-place.

Spontaneous Or Planned Romantic Moments Are Wonderful

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Carol's avatarCelebrate The Sweet Life

Keep Dating After The "I Do's"Spontaneous romantic moments are wonderful but so is planned romance without spontaneity or a planned date your love nest can become a sinkhole for love.

Spontaneous romantic moments are a wonderful goal, but lovemaking that is planned can still soar the two of you to unexpected heights, each segment perfectly constructed, because you’re the architect. 

Is love really better when it sneaks up on you or do you prefer planned romance? Planned romance  has one ingredient that spontaneous love lacks . . . anticipation. If you know in advance that at a particular hour you’ll be staring into each other’s eyes, you can interrupt your day with fantasies about those up coming moments. Then by the time you’re in each other’s arms, the experience will be that much sweeter. 

So grab those spontaneous moments when they come your way, but don’t count on them for building your very own love shack. Make certain that you stow away…

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Don’t Let Your Sweetheart’s Snoring Ruin Your Romance

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Last KissDoes your sweetheart have some foibles that drive you crazy?  This is part of being in a relationship and those foibles were  a part of them way before you came along.  No, really in all likelihood, each foible was part of your sweetheart long before you met. It’s not something that he or she does just to drive you nuts. Why does she always forget her keys? Why does he have to check his apps notifications while he is driving? Why does he leave the kitchen cupboard doors open all the time? After all it’s not that hard to close a door is it?

These are questions that you may end up asking yourself to the end of time and never get an answer. We all have our good points, but they’re paired with the bad ones. Without that mix, we’d be boring. With it, we can be taxing. What makes it all worthwhile is the love the two of you share.  Since each foible was a part of your sweetheart long before you met and it’s not something he or she does just to make you upset don’t take them personally, and stop letting them drive you nut.  Foibles must be accepted the same way that he  accepts that beauty mark that you are always trying to cover up with makeup and she accepts that bump on his nose.

Tip: There are some Foibles that are just annoying to put up with, and you have to find a solution, aside from the obvious one of getting the other person to stop. For example, if your partner’s snoring keeps you awake, you may never be able to get him or her to stop, but you can still get together for a little romance and then get up and sleep in the other room. That doesn’t sound very romantic does it but if you get exhausted enough from the lack of sleep you’ll consider it.

“Love Is You And Me”

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Bride and GroomLove is Me and You! Love is a lot of things to me like doing things together or eating candy. Love is fun, and a challenge, too. Love is sunshine smiling on our days, and when it rains it’s still okay. love is lots of things to me, but mostly love is Me and You!  I love you as you are and as you will be. I love you because there’s this little part of me (my heart) … that tells me that you and I were simply and meant to be.

You were meant for me. I have traveled many miles across the shining sea and I have seen many lives go down hill, and other lives go up hill and spent happily. But the only answer that I’ve found in all these places that I’ve seen is that I’m meant for you and you’re meant for me. I’ve followed hopes and followed hearts and I have wandered aimlessly. I have met  strangers in strange places, chased after even stranger dreams but the only certainty I’ve found and the only thing I’ll ever see, is that I’m meant for you, and you’re meant for me.

In my heart you don’t have to be perfect to belong in this place. You don’t have all the answers or always know the right thing to say. You can climb the highest mountain if you want. Or quietly imagine that you might someday. You can take chances or take safety nets, make miracles or make mistakes. You don’t be composed at all hours to be strong here. You don’t have to be bold or certain  to be brave. You don’t  have all the answers here or even know who you want to be. Just take my hand and rest your heart and stay awhile with me.

I’d do almost anything for you for example, I  would clean your house, I might also wash your car or maybe I’d get you some special chocolates or walk ten miles to see you or maybe take the train. I would give you everything I have, I’d give you everything I’ve got. Anyway, to do all these things I must like you a lot. (I do). I love the way you look at me. I love the way you smile, I love the things you do, I love it when we walk along together for a while, I love the things you say to me, I love that thing you do to me but mostly, what I mean to say is simply… I love you.

Without you, I would not grow  so much or laugh so much or know so much, I would not play so much or make so much of home. Without you, I would not smile so much or give so much or live so much. so many parts of me would be missing, without your smile to help me grow. Before you came my way my life was okay, but not that grand or anything it wasn’t complete. Why? Because you were missing. . . Love is you and me!