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Play Your Love Song

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Sing Your SongRemember your song? The one the two of you danced to at you wedding? Or the song that was blasting on your car radio on your way to the beach? Or the song the two of you sang  karaoke night on your first date? Of all the sounds that fill the air, piercing through the cacophony of life, this tune provides the two of you with the happiest sound of all. Yes love requires occasionally peace and quiet to prosper, it can also thrive surrounded by your happy love song.

Don’t allow your song to disappear into the ether. Use it to communicate the love you have for each other; maybe even play it every day. Perhaps you could use it to wake up to every morning or listen to it right before you go to bed. Use it as the background of your voicemail. Whistle it while you’re preparing dinner. Others may share your song, but when you set the music playing, for that moment it’s all yours . . . not just for one of you, but for both of you. The notes can help tie you closer together, and the more you play it, the tighter the ties that bind will be.

While music is meant to be heard, it can also be written in a text message or an email, on their  Facebook wall and of course you can write it on twitter  or do it the old-fashioned way and write it on sweetheart cards. There’s a woman in Montreal who makes pins out of the music of popular songs. Whether it is one of her pieces of jewelry or in another form, like through you favorite social media  or the old fashion  stationery, you can show your love for your song and your love by displaying these notes in many places where sounds are out-of-place.

Don’t Let Your Sweetheart’s Snoring Ruin Your Romance

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Last KissDoes your sweetheart have some foibles that drive you crazy?  This is part of being in a relationship and those foibles were  a part of them way before you came along.  No, really in all likelihood, each foible was part of your sweetheart long before you met. It’s not something that he or she does just to drive you nuts. Why does she always forget her keys? Why does he have to check his apps notifications while he is driving? Why does he leave the kitchen cupboard doors open all the time? After all it’s not that hard to close a door is it?

These are questions that you may end up asking yourself to the end of time and never get an answer. We all have our good points, but they’re paired with the bad ones. Without that mix, we’d be boring. With it, we can be taxing. What makes it all worthwhile is the love the two of you share.  Since each foible was a part of your sweetheart long before you met and it’s not something he or she does just to make you upset don’t take them personally, and stop letting them drive you nut.  Foibles must be accepted the same way that he  accepts that beauty mark that you are always trying to cover up with makeup and she accepts that bump on his nose.

Tip: There are some Foibles that are just annoying to put up with, and you have to find a solution, aside from the obvious one of getting the other person to stop. For example, if your partner’s snoring keeps you awake, you may never be able to get him or her to stop, but you can still get together for a little romance and then get up and sleep in the other room. That doesn’t sound very romantic does it but if you get exhausted enough from the lack of sleep you’ll consider it.

Look Into Your Sweethearts Eyes

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Your eyes can express feelings that words cannot, your eyes say, “I missed you,”  “I’m angry with you”,  “I adore you.” or “I trust you.”  Your partner knows how you really feel with or without words. And when you use your eyes with your words, they add an emphasis that can’t be missed.

Eye contract is vital in every relationship. When spoken into space , the words “I love you” lose half their meaning, maybe even all of it. (Unless you’re on the phone, of course.) It’s when you say those words while looking into your sweethearts eyes that they mean the most.

So, try to spend some time each day looking into each other’s eyes, you’ll be expressing yourselves in a way that words cannot duplicate. Maybe you were across the room and your eyes met. Maybe that’s how it began. soon you communicated with words and with your bodies, but it was your eyes that made the first contact.

Tip: If your partner can’t look you in the eyes, there’s another type of message being communicated. Don’t ignore such a sign, but try to get to the bottom of it. The earlier you spot trouble in a relationship  and make repairs, the easier it will be.

Listen To Your Partners Advice

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Help doesn’t have to be physical and sharing doesn’t mean losing control. But a loved one’s support can mean everything in coping with life’s problems. So when your partner offers a lifeline and you’re tempted to toss it aside, look into the eyes of the person holding the other end and grab on. If you are in a relationship that means the two of you are in it for the good times and the hard times. If you are use solving your problems yourself, even a minor crisis may cause you to shut your psyche up tight like a clam.

But if your partner loves you, he or she is going to sense that something is wrong, even without knowing what it is. Your partner wants to help you get through this. If you lock up your feelings refuse your partner’s help, it may cause rift. If it happens over and over, you could drift so far apart that you sight of each other. Listening to your partner’s advice doesn’t mean you have to take it. But by sharing your burden, you  will strengthen your relationship, and that’s a positive outcome no matter what started it all.

Tip: When you offer a stranger advice, you can walk away without worrying about the outcome. When it’s someone close to you, it may require your  help to carry that advice. That shouldn’t deter you because if you love the person, you should want to help. But if you really can’t, be careful what advice you give.